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As a professional musician, I make close to $1800 a month, tax free because I get paid in cash, I regularly go to food banks so I don't go shopping too much, I get all my clothes for free from church clothing giveaways and from the lost and found basket in the laundromat I live in a camper rent-free on 5 acres of land that a friend of mine owns, I have two 50 gallon water tanks for showers and cooking, I have a generator and solar panels as well I basically pay less than $150 a month to live, and I don't think I could live in an apartment or a house anymore because paying anything over $300 a month just isn't feasible for me, I've become happy with watching those 100, 50 and $20 bills pile up in my 5-gallon water jug

I sorta do the same. I pack a large bag with all this, but I leave it in the office or car. Then I have a sling or crossbody that I wear all the time with keys, glasses, earbuds, and small pouches for key cards and small cash.

Great video and helpful tips. Thanks for sharing!

Planning is my hobby, I live a full life it makes me happy to see a full planner and sad to see an empty one but all my task gets don’t regardless if I write down or not.

I need this. I did nothing yesterday. And woke up with low blood pressure this morning. Sometimes we just need to rest.

I will organize my bag after seeing this. Thank you Ma'am

Oh my….you opened this video with a few clear remarks that actually SEE ME. I felt naked in my procrastication. Planners have never worked well for me because ….well….i love making those lists. Yup, right it down. Then it’s out of my head. Sigh. Working on a new technique now. I’m a visual learner, YES. I now use stickers to track: 1.) emotions for the day -> smiley face, sad face or a “meh” no expression face; (2.) energy today? did I feel some level of motivation? that gets a shiny star; and (3.) if I pulled off some big task, if I have a moment to wag my own tail….i get a Wonder Woman sticker! 🤣🤣 ALSO, and this has been KEY for my progress…..I write a statement about how I FEEL and what’s holding me back. This effectively removes me from “planning” (I’m fixing to do…) into identifying the blockage. ADD a possible solution. Does this work? I was stunned at how this made a difference after a week or two. Here’s a sample -> “I need to water my vegetable garden…BUT….its hot, I’m tired & cranky, I just don’t wanna go out there….YET IF I DO THIS ACTION…I will be out in fresh air, feel the sun, hear the birds and will be in a better mood”. Then, bam! I’m outside! Keep posting your valuable content. 👍🏻 Thank you for your post ❤

Thank you for this video! You have no idea how timely this is. This was me yesterday. I had mapped out what I wanted and needed to do that day and just could not get in gear. I had a decent night's sleep, so that wasn't it. I wasn't emotionally upset or anything, so that wasn't it. I just couldn't move. Now I can pray into this and recognise it when it happens rather than beating myself up that I didn't get anything done. Is there a book on this anyone could recommend? I've just checked out the hashtag and "stuck" can mean different things.

Where did u get the binder planner?

Hi Alaina I just watched your UA-cam video from 4 years ago called How I use my Happy Planner for my small business! And wow it’s exactly what Iam looking for, Iv tried so many planners and end up tossing them! I was going to order the planner you showed from Amazon but was hoping and praying I could get the inserts you showed in the video?

Damn I’ve been looking for vids to help me create a planner for a couple days now, I found I was looking for on this video! So detailed, so creative and so professional. Thank you very much!

Miss your voice is beautiful 😊

Congrats Alaina on another opportunity to share your knowledge on managing finances.

So happy for you! What an amazing opportunity.

I don't know if you have a video on this or not, but could you possibly do one on what it look like to redo your day, if that makes sense. For my myself ill even get overwhelmed just looking at it and it's not "neat" enough or there's too much going on so I need to rewrite it. But I dont know how to or i dont want to loose all my papers. Also this was an amazing watch. Thank you sm for making videos like this! It really helps put things into perspective.

Thanks for the tips! Starting a small business soon!❤

Very insightful thank you

Out of all the videos that I've seen this was the most unique 1yet that was needed😂😅 lol I digress

So frustrated.. single mom barely bringing in $800 and I feel like I only spend money on necessities really need to cut back where I can and focus on not freezing up so I can do better!!

Just scrolling… saw your videos and I thought ohhh, just more videos that probably won’t work for me…. Nope!! Running to my planner to start trying this out right away! Especially when you talked in a previous video about the days when you are in a freeze response. That’s my everyday. 😭 thank you so much, invaluable for me right now. 🤎

I love this! YES! Routine tasks, especially. Sometimes I get out a broom and sweep, or put six things away. This gets me upright, on my feet and mentally moving. I imagine these things as swirling the energy around. It’s just a metaphor, but it seems to help me get going.

I haven’t quite gotten out of freeze yet however one thing that I am realizing that I need to do is include my children more. Some things that I might consider me time like stretching can be done with my toddlers as well and it’s a benefit to them. So overall revisioning self care

I am so thankful I happened to see your channel and watch this particular video. I started going into freeze mode about 11 years ago after a series of traumatic events. I had always been a planner, chaos organizer, and able to plan short-term and long-term projects. I beat myself up every single day for being lazy, even though I know that’s not what the real issue is. This made me feel hopeful. I subscribed and am looking forward to your next post.

This!! ❤

This great idea! I will be implementing this today ❤❤❤ thank you! 🥰🥰🥳💎💎

So many great tips! Thank you

Flip a coin on any 2 actions ( bath or book count) or Set a timer for 24 minutes for any activity - again sewing vs cleaning- let fate decided

Your hair looks AMAZING in this vid

Thank you alaina❤

This is me😢

Good video great ideas hope I can accomplish some thanks for sharing lots of blessings

One the things I do to help to me unfreeze is put on my favorite music and do the task or watch something very inspirational and uplifting. Those things seem to help me unfreeze. And thinking about the Big picture (the Why of what I'm doing) seems to help. So far I've completed reading two books, so I'm happy about reaching that goal. I need to keep in my to be patient with myself and patient with my plan and not give up. From Kingsville, Ohio ❤ ♥ 😊

I like doing this for myself also. I don’t label as I know it is my clothes. But it is so convenient to grab a bag instead of assembling from a suitcase.

This is the exact video I was looking for. Thank you for posting this!

You're an illuminating presence! ✨ -- "Success emerges from navigating the thin line between failure and accomplishment.."

Hello

I needed to hear this…. THANK YOU SIS!

ADHD paralysis. Actually, stimulation for the Vegas nerve kicks on parasympathetic nerve system and it resets the brain

Thanks!

What type or pound of premium paper or card stock do you use? Thank you

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Thank you for the great tips!! I usually make myself get up and do one simple task to help me to get motivated.

Thank you for putting a name to this. I never knew what it was. I am normally a very productive person even in retirement. I knew I was not depressed, or sick, I just couldn't get going. Sometimes it takes a while to actually recognize it. Once I do, I will ask the Holy Spirit help me overcome it.

I can appreciate your organization!

I plan my goals for a given week, and then make a 5-item To-do list the night before for the next day. Sometimes I may have to break down a larger task into smaller, more doable parts over several days, especially if it's a task that's necessary and also frustrating.

This is so helpful. Between my job that is always stressful and my new puppy, I think that everything got so overwhelming and I've been in freeze mode for over 6 months. I just look around and dread because there seems to be so much to catch up on!

Thanks this really helps. Sometimes I will watch you tube then do a task

Thk u! Needed this today

#Q How many accounts should we have? I have several things being deposited into different accounts….should all of that go into one account vs several ones?! I follow you on UA-cam and wasn’t too sure if you were going to respond back. Do you offer 1 on 1 help? I’m so frustrated with with setting up my monthly budget!!😖😵‍💫

Excellent video for neurodivergents.